I donโt know about you but mercy is a word I donโt use a lot and we certainly donโt tend to hear it a lot in society today. You may not really understand the true meaning of the word but the dictionary says mercy is:
โCompassion or forgiveness shown towards someone whom it is within one’s power to punish or harmโ
As Christians, we have recognised that God is the ultimate mercy-giver and has shown us unbelievable mercy that we never deserved. He is prepared to overlook our sin because of the sacrifice his son Jesus made that covers all our sin and when he looks at us he sees us white as snow. He could so easily measure our punishment but he loves us so much and desires to be in a right relationship with us and this is made possible by his son Jesus. As mercy has been shown to us, God would desire us to show his mercy to others.
ย ย “Shouldnโt you have mercy on your fellow servant, just as I had mercy on you?” –ย Matthew 18:33
So, as Christians we are called to be merciful and when we get saved God starts to mould us into the likeness of his son Jesus, so showing mercy should be second nature to us as it is one of the gifts of the spirit.
“So all of us who have had that veil removed can see and reflect the glory of the Lord. And the Lord–who is the Spirit–makes us more and more like him as we are changed into his glorious image.” –ย 2 Corinthians 3:18
The Greek word for the spiritual gift of mercy is Eleeo which means to be patient and compassionate toward those who are suffering or afflicted. This goes beyond just caring about their spiritual needs and is also concerned with their physical needs. People with the gift of mercy long to see people come through a healing process and are able to give their time, over an extended period in some cases, to go through it with them and support them.
In my church, we have a social action ministry called the Jericho Road Project that, at its heart, is about showing Godโs love to all people but especially those who are in poverty, suffering with addictions, homeless and living on the streets of South London and lacking hope. It is headed up by an amazing guy called Simon Allen who has the spiritual gift of mercy.
“If you preach, just preach Godโs Message, nothing else; if you help, just help, donโt take over; if you teach, stick to your teaching; if you give encouraging guidance, be careful that you donโt get bossy; if youโre put in charge, donโt manipulate; if youโre called to give aid to people in distress, keep your eyes open and be quick to respond; if you work with the disadvantaged, donโt let yourself get irritated with them or depressed by them. Keep a smile on your face.” –ย Romans 12:8
People who have this gift tend to be able to show compassion at a deep level and can literally feel when people arenโt doing well and are hurting and then can come alongside them in it and share their pain. They are usually very good listeners and the sort of people that are there for you through thick or thin.
“Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep.” –ย Romans 12:15
People with this gift also have a deep sense of compassion for those with mental health issues or emotional distress and often those people would naturally gravitate towards them. They will endeavour to do all they can to remove the hurt for someone or the cause of the hurt.
Over the summer I was fortunate enough to bump into a guy called Josh Coombes. I had seen him on Instagram and knew that he was a hairdresser who has decided to cut peoples hair who were living on the streets in London. I was able to sit and have a coffee with him and chat to him about what he was doing and I was overwhelmed by what an incredible young man he is.
He has a couple of friends who have been going round with him, one taking photos of before and after to post on Insta and he has also been sharing the stories of those he meets (with their permission). They started a social action campaign called Do Something For Nothing where they are encouraging people to use what talent they have to help others without expecting anything back in return and it has blown up all over social media with them being interviewed in the press and many opportunities coming their way to promote this fantastic campaign.
As you have been reading about this gift you may have felt that it was describing you, and your next step is to find out more. If you havenโt already you can use the teen version of theย Spiritual Gift Guideย to point you towards your giftings.
Once you know your areas of gifting life takes on a whole new meaning as you start to realise what makes you feel alive when you are moving and serving in that area.
The gift of mercy is beautiful, and we live in a world where we so desperately need people stepping out with this gift!
Thank you in advance for all you are going to bring to the world around you by recognising the gift that you carry!
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OMG THIS WAS SO REVEALINGโค๏ธโค๏ธ???? I love the phrasing and how much it can relate to anyone! The gift of mercy is so giving, kind and FANTASTIC!!! #lovegod #lovemykids #suburbanmom #JC #LOL
Sorry, forgot some #โs! #WAP
If you are a person of mercy you will also be quick to forgive. Grudges are an extension of unforgiveness. Where there is a merciful heart there is a forgiving heart leaving no room for grudges.
Thank you so much for the advice (: it means a lot. I’m sure I definitely have this gift . Some things that happened today confirmed it and I’m also starting to understand more of who I am and who God made me to be . It’s so beautiful and I’m also learning from my friend who has a Mercy gift . Also do signs of your gift show up when you’re little too . Because I can say as a child I wasn’t as emotional , I was really sensitive though the littlest things made me cry or made me sad and because of that I’m very gentle with other people’s feelings. I can say though that as I grew up and was filled with the Holy Spirit I became way more emotional . Now when I hear or see someone who is in pain I can’t help but cry and want to pray for their healing if their sick or just be with the person, especially the people no one wants to be with . I actually want to be with those people and that’s another thing when I was little I always wanted to be friends with the lonely girl I thought it was the most beautiful thing. I just think being kind and empathetic is the most beautiful way to show Christ . I also see that I’m starting to love worship more . I’m growing into it and its beautiful . Now I don’t have to be someone I’m not because by nature i’m a quiet and soft spoken person but throught high school I thought I had to be loud cool and funny to be liked. Knowing my gift and personality to match is helping me so much
God created us and as such he gave us our personalities, talents and gifts. It is no surprise that you were demonstrating these sorts of behaviours as a child. I too am a highly sensitive person and have been all my life. Growing up I was often embarrassed and didn’t know why I cried so much at stuff around me. Once I got saved and started to understand the gifts of the spirit and how Holy Spirit works I realised that God had made me to be highly sensitive and I am learning how this can be a way of connecting with people and feeling their pain during ministry time and I now love being like this. Embrace all that he has created you to be and learn how to use it to show Jesus to the world around you. Sxx
Whoops-sorry I forgot my details at the start of the reply. Sx
And I also took a spiritual gift test and I got mercy , intercession , craftsmanship , healing , and tongues as my highest gifts … I actually scored really low on encouragement and I don’t really feel that that’s my dominant gift …
This is such a beautiful article. Im trying to read more about my gift of mercry to understand more of who I am . It’s so amazing because i found out they like to savor the moments in life . Bit i also see i have exhorter characteristics. Itsp hard sometimes to know which one is dominant … But I believe it’s Mercy . And that’s because I have a passion to show compassion and assist those who are hurting . Sometimes I don’t care about anything else but someone just coming to cry to me and for me to offer a hug and listen . But People with the gift of mercy do they offer good advice too …. is that their thing because I heard “don’t go to a mercy for encouragement ” but I think to really express the gift you also have to encourage through words of comfort .:. So don’t you have to be encouraging …. I think that’s where my a little bit of the exhorter characteristics come and plus my mom is an exhorter so I think she influenced me in a way …. I even thought at first I was an exhorter but my heart went to mercy …
Thank you so much Olu I’m glad you found the article helpful. I’m so glad it got you thinking about your spiritual gifts and finding out more about them ๐
Mercy is such a beautiful gift and one we so need in a hurting world. I think if you feel you have this gift you shouldn’t worry about whether you are a good encourager as well. If God has given you this gift then He doesn’t make mistakes and he will have equipped you fully to administer the gift. You can always ask Holy Spirit to help you at any point if you don’t feel you have the right thing to say and He will give you what you need in the moment.
But I would say embrace the gift and step into it and as with all the gifts there is a learning curve to be had and we are like children learning all the time and He gives us grace accordingly.
Much love to you.
Sarah xx
So by nature people with this gift are also encouraging? Because usually people say I’m compassionate , sweet and encouraging , and that I love people even those who are horrible …. ( that’s because of Jesus I don’t want to take credit) In bad times or times of pain………that’s another thing are people with this gift prone to grudges too? Sorry I keep asking too many questions